[happytree123]

Originally Posted by bullterrier

pointers

There is no free lunch. If you give her nothing, then her meeting you in China is a waste of her time, not your time

Most of the WLs who went back, after a short time, will return to the same job, what some bros said here is true, either to Zhuhai/Macau/Korea/South Africa/South America. It is very difficult for them to step out of this line unless they find a very good angel guy who can bring them income. They need money to survive, their kids, their house instalment etc

if you want to meet them in China or elsewhere, be prepared to spend money. They are not going to eat at road side stall. They are not prepared to leave empty handed. Either a shopping spree buy handbags or some jewellery or.... Yes, after that RAW session, your rod controls your mind. The coming of a few RAW sessions will drain your wallet dry.

I shall put your 3rd paragraph to the test, when I maybe go find my regular who just RTC.

But I broadly agree with your 1st and 2nd paragraph